Status: SINGLE
Are you on your way or are you already there? Nowadays, single individuals are often perceived as Loners, Love Outcasts, etc. Harsh, isn't it? People think that there is always something wrong with you when you are single. Then eventually, you keep on looking on what's wrong with you when the truth is there's none.
Let's face it. Not all singles will get married. Some will turn to what they call "Calling." These are the people who are destined to serve the Lord. They are the ones who reciprocate to the calling of the Lord. But that's a different story.
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This article will tackle about the different groups of Single People. Are you ready? Then, let's see where do you belong.
The "I'm-Still-Not-Ready" Group
They are those single individuals who simply thinks that they are not fit to enter a relationship because of personal issues and circumstances. They think that entering to a romantic relationship will be a distraction to their endeavors.
The "Family First, Love Later" Group
Yeah. You got that one right. They are the ones who have family responsibilities. Familiar with the "Kailangan pang makatapos ni bunso sa college, eh." syndrome? That is just one of the many alibis they have just to delay having a relationship.
The "No-Time-For-Love" Group
They are those who have no time for romantic endeavors. Simply because they are too busy to be in love. They are busy with work and other stuffs that all they want to do when they got home is to lay down and just rest. No time to socialize and engage into romantic dating.
The "High Value" Cluster
They are the ones who set high standards for their future partner. They are the so-called "choosy" ones. They search for those who are on the same level as they are. For them, they work hard to establish a stable career, thus they will not sacrifice it for the sake of a relationship that is not worth it.
The "Forever Alone" Group
They think that they never find their partners for life. They are those who have "You are too good to be true" mentality. They still don't find the "right one" for them.
They were like the "Always Busted" clan for guys and the "Bachelorettes-To-Be" for girls. it seems like no one can capture their hearts.
The "Insecurity Kills" Group
They think that they are not beautiful or handsome enough to be liked by someone. A big, big no. They feel insecure to those who are fit and in-shape. Their low self-esteem is what makes those individuals who belong in this group keep themselves in entering a relationship.
The "Love Hurts" Group
They are the one who are simply not yet getting over with their ex'es. They are too afraid to be in a relationship because they fear that they might get hurt again.
They have bitter experiences with love that's why they always have second thought in engaging into new relationships. It's the hurt that keeps them from loving someone.
The "Last Chance" Passengers
They are the ones who are on their way to Bachelordom and Spinsterhood. They have been busy with their other priorities that they forgot that they are getting old for relationships. Some of the members of this group are "Destiny Believers" because they know that even with their old age, there is still that someone to be with them for life.
The "Friendzoners"
They thought that nobody likes them well in fact, someone did but they "friendzoned" them. They are the one who believe that friends will always be just friends. Nothing more, nothing less.
The "No-Strings-Attached" Group
They are the ones who don't believe in commitments. All they want is someone who can be with them, not to the point that he/she needs to be loved back and vice versa.
There's nothing wrong with being single. After all, it's a choice. Just keep in mind that, maybe you are single at the moment because God is preparing you for someone who is much deserving of your love.
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